Category Archives: Sex Therapy
Sex isn’t that hard to come by, good sex is rare and great sex almost doesn’t exist. When we find that partner that gives it to us right it’s a feeling of accomplishment. A perfect sex partner is like the employee of the month and/or your best salesman of the year. The culture of corporate America is to never, under any circumstance, let your best employee go. Once you accomplish the job of satisfaction, you ain’t going no where.
It’s very easy, yet unsatisfying, to just hop in the bed grab, rub, lick, suck, bang, fuck but what’s the purpose? We all search for that corporate climber who is the best person for the job of handling the “business.” Many workers come and go but your top salesman will always be the best and remembered for being it. He/she knows exactly how to negotiate and close the deal and we think about our business transaction even when we’re engaging in another activity not regarding “business transaction”
Good employees are hard to come by so before you fire your salesman of the year take a look at the unemployement line.
“I would color all day, everyday if I could…I like to use every crayon in my box.” –Samantha “Sex & The City”
Do you like to color? Do you like to stay in the lines? Or are you just all over the place? Can anyone be good at coloring or does the old saying “practice makes perfect” hold true? So How do you like to color? Inside the lines? Slightly perfect? Zig-zaggy? No matter what you like when you find the perfect “artist” you want to color all day long, all night if possible or just any given time your able to open the crayola box. Good coloring wont allow you to walk half a block without thinking about that masterpiece you & your boo colored a earlier. How does he/she do it? Is he/she magic? Has to be, nobody can or should be able to do it that good! Smile
We all often go through it, some sooner than others & unfortunately some not at all! But coloring is fun when you have the right classmate who’s an masterpiece artist using the right crayon box. With the wrong “artist” coloring is like finger-painting, just sloppy with a lot of unnecessary mess & confusion, so pick wisely!
Have fun coloring!
“Mind sex & the mental connection empowers physical touch & simulation” -Kells
Your comfortable so be comfortable, Everything is perfect, the lights are low, music is on, the candles are lit & after a few drinks your feeling relaxed & sexy, so let loose & press cruise control.
What’s the key to good sex? Is it a mind connection? Flawless looks? Depending on who you ask & when you ask them you’ll get a lot of different answers. The key to good sex has nothing to do with sex or the pleasure of it, it starts with comfortably. The simplest thing to learn is that! You make someone feel so comfortable to the point they get lost in time & they’ll open up to just about anything. The worst sex or experience of it, happens when someone is holding back, something you said, did or didn’t say simply isn’t allowing him or her to open up & be free. Nothing wrong with wanting to feel at ease, to have the feeling of comfort where nothing matters, it’s the best aphrodisiac.
Most Males simply need a female naked smelling good to be at ease, Females however require a bit more. Sure we can all just turn the lights off & have excellent sex but good sex starts way before the sexual adventure even starts. It’s a mind thing, a thing most do not choose or care to know! Mind sex empowers physical touch, to have sex with that mind connection beats sex with a dummy any day.
For females sex starts soon as she walks into your place, many females will turn it up or down depending on how fly, or lack of, your spot is. A female needs to feel the atmosphere to be at ease, this is a concept lost by most males and for the latter most females as well. Looks go but so far if a person doesn’t feel comfortable! You can’t be ultra decked out sexy & your spot doesn’t match your fly, who you are or the sexiness you portray.
Sex may be 50% touch & 50% mental but the power of a mental connection will always have a longer lasting impression than any touch.
To Be Continued: Sex therapy 101: The Coloring Book