BATTLE OF THE SEXES “The Prequel” (The “I’m not BUSY I’m Working” Edition)
“She loves her work more than she loves me….”
-Jay-z “Lost Ones”
How do you spell love? The spelling of love has never started with a “L.” The word love actually has nothing to do with emotions. Love is & will always be spelled T-I-M-E. In order to hold healthy relationships we need that time together, as well as apart. Spending every moment together is unhealthy; not spending enough time at all is unreal! So what is the medium? We are in a bad economical state, so if a mate is on the grind to secure his/her future should we get mad? Shouldn’t the state of the country obligate you to encourage your lover to go out & get it rather than questioning their work ethics?
Time & love makes us question what we want in a mate. Females usually want time to constitute love while males rather understanding, both wanting support and/or encouragement to go out & get it. We are all motivated people only different by what & how much support we need to get motivated.
Once being in Love with him/her starts to feels like a job it is time to get out, talk about it or move on. Females see the present with the future in mind while males think about the future to make sense of the present, confused? Females are more concerned to build in the presence to secure a future, while males work hard towards the future so that hard work in the presence can be justified in the future. Depending on the couple this can be vice versa. Both males & females want the same end result just both respectively use different methods to get there. If we’re taking a trip does it matter what car and/or road we use to get there or just getting there?
There is a huge difference between working & being busy, don’t confuse the two! Working is most often an obligation, something you signed up for while being busy or keeping busy is a tool used for motivation for some. Being busy sometime simply means keeping your self occupied while working is something to secure your future and/or provide for the life you choose to lead! You can be “busy” working which means your trying to get a lot accomplished within that day of work.
Love could be so simple but yet we make it so hard. No one wants to grind/work all the time but we must push forward to secure our future. How many people do we all know that didn’t reach their full potential in life because of love or the facade of it? Held back by a lover & the obligation forced upon them to do this & that.
The two can & do co-exist. But what are any of us willing to let go for it to work?
By K.E.L.L.s
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