BATTLE OF THE SEXES “The Prequel” (The Search for Love)

BATTLE OF THE SEXES “The Prequel” (The Search for Love)

I wanna be in Love; I want it so bad that it makes me jealous to see other people in love. I don’t understand why can’t it happen to me? Do I really have that many flaws? Why can’t my lover see all the great things the rest of the world seems to see? Questions, concerns & a doubt of self is what motivate us to search for love. We all set our life up to what we want & need but what do we truly need? To understand love shouldn’t we understand ourself? Surprisingly many of us do not understand our self, we pretend that it’s everyone else when in fact it may be you. If 3 relationships end the same, or in a similar way, at what point does everyone else stop being the problem & the problem just becoming you?

We create false reasoning & excuses to why it didn’t work with the person to justify our own actions. We all have our attributes we would want in a mate, but when is it alright to alter those things? It’s alright to make exceptions for exceptional people. Many of us leave one bad relationship to a good one & can’t handle it. We become so use to things being wrong that nothing can be right, we doom our own search for love by sabotages romantic motives.

What do you look for in a lover? Is it money? Success? Educated? Whatever it is what are you willing to give up or let go to get him/her? If you want a goal orientated, educated, successful person but was once married, now divorced, would you take that? We have to pick & choose what we’re willing to be loose with.

You are never going to find someone with everything you want. NEVER. So love who your with, help them become who you want to love or find someone as close as to who you want to love but remember love has perfect imperfection, don’t let the imperfect flaws stop your search for your perfect love.

By K.E.L.L.s

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