BATTLE OF THE SEXES VOL.3 (Should He Really Put a Ring On It?)
All My Single Ladies. All My Single Ladies. Yea Yea we all Know the routine, we all know that if he liked it he should of put a ring on it and perhaps he is tight that somebody else got it, but let’s be real not every song plays to your favor, once again we have a anthem that convinces every female that they are worthy of something that most aren’t.
Most females truly believe they are a total packaged deal & ready to be snatched off the shelf with no assembly required.
In our society it is more acceptable for a female to have less checked off our lives to-do list, while a male must have a purpose, a list of goals, in most cases a car, a place or even money.
Females aren’t to blame for this, most males aren’t at all concerned with what positive reflections of success a female has. We have simply put beauty ahead of longevity, so for him to put a ring on it shouldn’t you bring more to the table than just beauty? Females become complacent in life more easily than males. However, males always seem to get the short end of the stick.
Its not that he didn’t wanna put a ring on it but certain things must be in place before a man feels confortable to pop that question, ironically, in life all those things will never be in place at the same time, so its up to you to determine when is right, that does not mean putting a time limit on your relationship. Some relationships stand no grounds for marriage & it’s pretty obvious when it won’t work.
So before dropping down low & sweeping the floor with it, then turn & ask why he didn’t put a ring on it? Take a look in the mirror & ask yourself am I marriage worthy? There is no such thing as perfection but we have to find what we consider to be closest thing to it and love it, at the same time we have to have self growth for someone to want to put it on that finger.
So should he really put a ring on it?
By K.E.L.L.s
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