NIGHTLIFE “The Prequel” Pt. 6 The Ego Has Landed Edition II (The that’s Not Me Disease)
We all been partying 5+ years & somehow all the parties are the same. Many times people say & do things to attempt to be different only ending up to be the same. The reason “mainstream” parties seem different is because it is different, there are different types of people there, a lot more violence & drug use in “white” parties than in “black” parties yet many will go there over a urban party? More has happened at a “mainstream” party than “urban.”
People who say “oh no I’m not going to that party it be too ghetto” are always people who reside in the hood. The “that’s not me disease” runs wild in our culture, rather than help to provide a solution many shoot down attempts to be different, even when you create a new lane people don’t wanna ride in it. Many “urban” promoters provide upscale events but do we care? The lack of support makes many question why change the formula? People don’t appreciate our upscale events because of ignorance of that famous saying “oh they just tryna b white”
Females are public enemy #1 of this epidemic. Every female promotes independence, but oh no not to pay $20 for a party, I meant independent in paying for myself but not for paying for myself for a party. Never mind your bills or the business of doing parties. She wants to get in free. A females “good time” is determined by if she had to pay or not. Ever see your homegirl in a party & before the party even pops off she’s complaining? Why? Most likely because she had to pay. A female’s ego is CRUSHED when she has to pay. Most females believe paying for a party & looking good don’t go.
There is no such thing as a ghetto party, the hood can & will get into any venue given the right circumstance. If you truly believe when you go to a “white” party that it isn’t any “hood” in their you need to take your ass home & read a book. The only problem with a hood party is potential violence but isn’t controlling the crowd security job? Not the promoters.
Be careful of the words you choose to differentiate yourself from the pack because saying “that’s not me” makes whatever it is your saying “just you.”
STOP THE IGNORANCE.
By K.E.L.L.s
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