Turbulence!!! Pt. 1 “Love Is Stronger Than Pride”
“I Can’t Hate You, Though I Have Tried…I Still REALLY, REALLY Love You, Love Is Stronger Than Pride.”
-Sade “Love Is Stronger Than Pride”
Of all the accomplishments and success that life has to offer, the hardest and easiest thing to conquer is love. The most complicated of every emotion, you want to turn your back on it, but can’t. We break up, make up, scream I’m DONE, rip up pictures, delete emails, text, numbers, block ’em from EVERYTHING just to lead back to do it one more ‘gain.
Those fortunate to be in love or to have been know just the feeling, love hurts and it’s not until you’ve been in love that you realize it’s a pain worth having. Everything is different when your in love, your food taste better, breathing is different, you have a better outlook on things, love can all together change every aspect of life for you, from the most major things like the future and finances to looking at a bird fly across the damn park.
Many things can be turned off but your heart and love is not one of them, it’s the strongest feeling in the world. Your pride can try to hide it but your heart will pull the rug right up from under your ass. Breaking up is harder than murder; you would rather go blind than see them with another person. Your pride will simply not let love win, but your pride can never be as strong as love. So how do we differ the two, can they co-exist? In some way, yes, but would you really love that person if they didn’t make you both happy and mad?
Chris Rock once said “you haven’t been in love until you get that I wanna kill you feeling,” the emotion is strong that offing them seems a lot more easier than dealing with the heartbreak. Grief usually sets in like a bad tooth, out of no where you’re seemingly “good” relationship has turned bad, with bad leading to worst! The turbulence of what was seemingly good makes any person look for a way out.
It is hard to love a person you know you can’t be with, its even worst when after you call it quits you realize that despite the fact of you guys not being able to work that you still want to be with that person. There are no guides to love and with millions of songs about love and heartbreak, why do we continue to search for love? No one can tell or give you advice on how to love. The only thing to do is to stay true to your hurt and hopefully your pride will play along.
By K.E.L.L.s
