Turbulence!!! Pt. 5 “I’d Rather Be Blind”
“I’d would rather go blind, than to see you walk away from me, I love you so much that I don’t wanna see you leave” -Etta James/Beyonce “I’d rather be blind”
After all that turbulence how can we go on? We love so hard towards the end that it drains us, it’s not until we realize that we’re about to lose that person that we truly know what we got or what we had. All those nights of pillow talk and exciting sex, could they really be walking down the street with someone else? Do we not realize that the only way to truly get over a person is to get with someone else?
Which makes you think what’s worst? Being on the rebound or being the person rebounding? Just as it’s hard to move on, it’s hard being the person with someone who is trying to move on. Why? Because you know deep down inside that the feelings between you two may or may not be mutual.
None of us can picture or imagine that person we laid with many nights laying with someone else, giggling in the dark, cuddling under the cover or just them having sex with another, we would rather be blind, deaf, stupid and crazy than to hear or see that.
Now think about who you’re with. Think about an ex you can’t let go, now think about them giving “the business” to someone else.
Secretly we don’t officially break up with a person until they’ve moved on or until you decide to make a power move which could make or break your chances of getting back together. We all live and deal with break knowing or believing we’ll get back together until either you see them with another, you move on or one does something to get attention of the other.
We play relationship games, fighting for the upper hand or to get the other person understand how strongly we feel rather than sitting and talking like adults. Love is simple, egos, pride, stubbornness and lack of communication makes it hard.
By K.E.L.L.s
