When Being In Love Goes Wrong “End Of The Road”
*Originally Written 11/2007
It all started so good didn’t it! When we first meet that person our emotions are so overwhelmed with “this is it, this is how love feels!” But over time what happens? Do we fall out of love with that person or do we get so comfortable that the allure of our self dissolves making the other person not wanna love us anymore?
Insecurities lead to vulnerability which leads to us questioning our love! Does she/he really love me? Am I doing all I can to keep him/her? When ultimately we should be focusing on just being in love! Love isn’t questions; it isn’t doubt nor is it a feeling! Love for a person cannot be explained, weighed or measured!
When love goes wrong we feel like we’ve failed! The feeling of the person I’ve worked hard to become (whether bad or good) is not what anyone else wants? Fortunately love is stronger than pride & we can’t force, fool or trick our self into loving anyone else but who our heart really desires! We all know what & who we want but we can’t always get what we want! Once the love is questioned it becomes harder & harder to show that love!
No one ever wants to break up, we do so in hopes that the other person will see that we don’t leave! But love is a two way street & if two people are chasing each other neither one will ever catch the other nor do we want it to be a one sided love affair! Love is confusing, no one can explain it, no one can show you how to love, we just take it as it comes & handle it the best way we can.
When love has reached the end of the road with that person we can chose to merge onto another “love” highway or go our separate ways & look for another road to take!
Choose What Your Heart Feels.
By K.E.L.L.s
