When Being In Love Goes Wrong “The Don’t Make Ya Next Ya Ex Edition”
*Originally Written 11/2007
Some relationships are doomed from the start we become ex lovers before the love affair even starts! Built on a faulty foundation & understanding for one another is what dooms it. We all have those beginning stages talks & we presume an understanding of one another but what happens to those talks once their over? Most forget them, some don’t care & others usually play it up as just talk!
Take some looks at pics of your ex! What went wrong? 9 out of 10 times we don’t know! And even if we did now that we look back it doesn’t matter does it? Emotions mixed with miscommunication can lead to a deadly mixture designed for one purpose only & that purpose is to destroy whatever love the two of you have!
We set our love affair for failure by our own defaults. Stories about your past, comparisons to another, why? We all know what we want & how we want our mate to be but isn’t it alright for your heart to make those choices rather than your mind? If your mind “only” wants someone who has this n that your always going to find the wrong person because what if he/she has all your requirements but is a coke head vs. someone who lacks many things you want but is a hard worker & caring!
We ALL need to stop with the set up of failure! Love isn’t planned so stop thinking about it & just love.
By K.E.L.L.s
